I have been thinking a lot about relationships and how they evolve/change over time. While many relationships in my life have grown stronger and more meaningful, there are a few that have lessened significantly. Sometimes this happens out of necessity and sometimes by accident. All I can do is pray for those no longer actively involved in my life. Though our paths are not headed along the same road, I ask God to continue to guide them towards His will.
One relationship that I treasure most in my life, is one that I have with my earthly father. I have seen him love quietly for many years, despite the situation. He is not a man of many words, and when he does speak it is often soft-spoken and full of knowledge. He has obviously thought things through before discussing a matter (unlike myself). He has consistently lead by example and for that I am eternally grateful. I pray that my children see this quality in their grandad as well. I also hope that my daughter sees these same qualities in her father. It is the basis of why I chose Johnny as my husband. He resembles my father in a great many ways. They have their differences, of course, but their core is the same.
The relationships that we are given here on earth are only for a time. While I wish that some relationships in my life had taken a different path, I have learned a great deal from each situation I have been through. God has blessed me. I have the emotion of my mother, which allows me to truly appreciate each moment I am given, and the compassion of my father, which allows me to continue to care/love on those that have departed from me no matter the circumstance.
My sisters and I w/ our dad
My daughter w/ her dad
